I...AM...
a shitty house keeper.
Laura and I have been going through this since we first moved in together. I am not a consistent housekeeper is actually more accurate. When I clean I do a fairly good job, but most of the time it's Laura who keeps the house neat and tidy.
I'm not making excuses, but I will admit to coming home on most days and just not wanting to mess with it. I'm often doing homework, or at school or at one job or the other, do doing an observation. So when I have a few hours at home I like to sit down for a bit.
But she's right when she says that it's not a luxury we can have with a child. And especially if she is going to be limited in mobility for any length of time (last trimester and/or post c-section) then the house work and care is going to fall on me.
Which means she wants me to start proving I can carry my share NOW. We said we were going to be honest with one another about this thing. And this is a problem she wants solved before we get serious about a baby.
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